{"id":58,"date":"2010-08-15T19:06:28","date_gmt":"2010-08-15T19:06:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/demo.studiopress.com\/genesis"},"modified":"2020-03-12T21:05:51","modified_gmt":"2020-03-12T21:05:51","slug":"resources","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.mylesdownes.com\/?page_id=58","title":{"rendered":"Resources"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Books:<br \/>\n<\/strong><strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attachedthebook.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Attached:The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find-And Keep-Love<\/a><\/em><\/strong> (Levine &amp; Heller)<br \/>\n<strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.rickhanson.net\/books\/buddhas-brain\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Buddha\u2019s Brain<\/a><\/em><\/strong> (Hanson, Rick)<br \/>\n<strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Ethical_Slut\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Ethical Slut<\/a><\/em><\/strong> (Easton, Dossie)<br \/>\n<em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.abebooks.com\/servlet\/SearchResults?kn=full+catastrophe+living&amp;sts=t&amp;x=0&amp;y=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Full Catastrophe Living: Using the Wisdom of Your Body and Mind to Face Stress, Pain, and Illness<\/a><\/strong><\/em> (Kabat-Zin, Jon)<br \/>\n<span class=\"style11\"><em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/A_General_Theory_of_Love\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">A General Theory of Love<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/span> (Lewis, Amini, Lannon)<br \/>\n<strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.indiebound.org\/book\/9781592858491&amp;aff=bbearg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Gifts of Imperfection<\/a><\/em><\/strong> (and anything by Brene Brown, really)<br \/>\n<strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/2181582.Healing_from_Trauma\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Healing from Trauma<\/a><\/em><\/strong> (Cori, Jasmin Lee)<br \/>\n<strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.drsuejohnson.com\/books\/hold-me-tight\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Hold Me Tight<\/a><\/em><\/strong> (Johnson, Sue)<br \/>\n<em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.shambhala.com\/integral-psychology-816.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Integral Psychology<\/a><\/strong><\/em> (Wilbur, Ken)<br \/>\n<strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/chrisgermer.com\/mindful-path-self-compassion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Mindful Path to Self Compassion<\/a><\/em><\/strong> (Germer, Christopher)<br \/>\n<strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.morethantwo.com\/more-than-two-polyamory-book\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">More Than Two<\/a><\/em><\/strong> (Rickert, Eve, &amp; Veaux, Franklin)<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.natcap.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong><em>Natural Capitalism: Creating the Next Industrial Revolution<\/em><\/strong><\/a><br \/>\n(Lovins, Hawkins &amp; Lovins)<br \/>\n<strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Waking_the_Tiger\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma<\/a><\/em><\/strong> (Levine, Peter)<br \/>\n<em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fritjofcapra.net\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Web of Life: A New Scientific Understanding of Living Systems<\/a> <\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n(Capra, Frijof)<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"style8\"><strong><span class=\"style5\"><br \/>\nLinks<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"style5\"><strong>:<\/strong><br \/>\nGeneral<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><span class=\"style8\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hakomica.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Hakomi Institute of California<\/a><\/span><br \/>\n<span class=\"style8\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.sfnewperspectives.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">New Perspectives Center for Counseling<\/a><\/span><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.queerlifespace.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Queer Life Space<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"style8\"><span class=\"style5\">Alternative Sexualities \/ Relationships<\/span><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/bayareaopenminds.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Bay Area Open Minds<\/a><\/span><br \/>\n<span class=\"style8\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.polychromatic.com\/pfp\/main.php\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Poly-Friendly Professionals<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.morethantwo.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">More Than Two<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ncsfreedom.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">National Coalition for Sexual Freedom<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"style5\">Trans<\/span> &amp; Non-binary<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.tgchrysalis.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">TG Chrysalis<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.wpath.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">WPATH<\/a><br \/>\nSan Francisco Bay Area:<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/dimensionsclinic.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Dimensions Clinic<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.genderspectrum.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Gender Spectrum<br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/thrive.kaiserpermanente.org\/care-near-you\/northern-california\/sanfrancisco\/departments\/gender-pathways-clinic\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Kaiser\u2019s Gender Pathways Clinic<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/lyon-martin.org\/services\/transgender\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><br \/>\nLyon Martin Health Services<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.twtransgenderclinic.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tom Waddell Clinic<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/apiwellness.org\/site\/transthrive\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Trans:Thrive<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"style8\"><strong><span class=\"style5\">For BDSM \/ Kink:<br \/>\n<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"style5\">Click on the following link for a very good article about choosing a <a href=\"https:\/\/drkkolmes.com\/2010\/05\/10\/a-guide-to-choosing-a-kink-aware-therapist\/#.XjywcS2ZMq8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">kink-positive therapist<\/a> which was written not too long ago by two colleagues of mine, Keely Kolmes, Psy.D. and Geri Weitzman, Ph.D.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Books: Attached:The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find-And Keep-Love (Levine &amp; Heller) Buddha\u2019s Brain (Hanson, Rick) The Ethical Slut (Easton, Dossie) Full Catastrophe Living: Using the Wisdom of Your Body and Mind to Face Stress, Pain, and Illness (Kabat-Zin, Jon) A General Theory of Love (Lewis, Amini, Lannon) The [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":53,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mylesdownes.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/58"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mylesdownes.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mylesdownes.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mylesdownes.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mylesdownes.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=58"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.mylesdownes.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/58\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":927,"href":"https:\/\/www.mylesdownes.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/58\/revisions\/927"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mylesdownes.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/53"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mylesdownes.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=58"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}